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3 habits of remarkably charming people
Some people instantly make us feel important. Some people instantly make us feel special. Some people light up a room just by walking in. They're naturally charming. 36 Familiarity leads to, well, familiarity.
37 :They build and maintain great relationships, consistently influencing the people around them positively. They’re the kind of people we all want to be around and want to be. Fortunately we can, because being remarkably charming isn’t about our level of Success or our presentation skills or how we dress or the image we project—it’s about what we do. Here are the 3 habits of remarkably charming people:
They listen more than they talk.
Ask questions. Maintain eye contact, smile, flown or nod. In a word, respond—not so much verbally, but nonverbally. 38 Then when you do speak, don’t offer advice unless you’re asked. Listening shows you care a lot more than offering advice.
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No one receives enough praise. No one. Tell people what they did well. Wait, you say you don’t know what they did well? Shame on you—it’s your job to know. It’s your job to find out ahead of time. Not only will people appreciate your praise, they’ll appreciate the fact you care enough to pay attention to what they’re doing.
They choose their words.
For example, you don’t have to go to a meeting; you get to go meet with other people. You don’t have to create a presentation for a new client; you get to share cool stuff with other people. You don’t have to go to the gym; 40 You don’t have to interview job candidates; you get to select a great person to join your team.
A.Praise IS what we need when we don’t feel good about ourselves.
B.That’s all it takes to show the other person they’re important.
C.you get to work out and improve your health and fitness.
D.But some people are remarkably charming.
E.They discuss the failings of others.
F.Unfortunately, natural charm quickly loses its impact.
G.They shine the spotlight on others.
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